tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8057558121360786533.post4168512603627530732..comments2024-03-08T12:04:54.379+00:00Comments on The Skinny Doll: Sabotage....The Skinny Dollhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07626016656502525364noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8057558121360786533.post-52580120284619939042010-10-31T16:15:45.009+00:002010-10-31T16:15:45.009+00:00Hi SD!
Thanks for stopping by and not making me f...Hi SD!<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by and not making me feel alone about my in-laws. <br /><br />When I first started blogging, I actually wrote about dieting, but I've gotten way off the track. Which mirrors my dieting efforts.<br />Ba, dump, bump.<br /><br />I can relate to sabotage. My husband is my biggest saboteur, although I do believe he is oblivious to it. Women usually do it with insecurity/jealousy as a motive. That's doesn't necessarily make it "mean," but does give it a self-serving twist. <br /><br />Be strong. Ten down. Go for it!Genie @ Diet of 51https://www.blogger.com/profile/12666514999795984295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8057558121360786533.post-18728576261281184912010-10-30T18:51:36.225+01:002010-10-30T18:51:36.225+01:00I don't think that they mean to. I think it...I don't think that they mean to. I think it's just an automatic defense mechanism. If the two of you are fat together, no problem. But if you become thin, then she's the fat friend.<br /><br />I've stopped talking to my friends about my weight loss, because I feel like they always try to sabotage it. I don't think they're doing it to hurt me -- I think they're doing it to keep from hurting themselves. One of them is this thin little stick and I could never be as thin as her, but she is incredibly insecure. So, yeah. I've just learned not to speak about it and to just eat whatever I eat and pretend like it's normal or just say "I'm not hungry" if they ask why I'm eating so little.<br /><br />-Raych<br />http://losingwithraych.blogspot.comRachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03956642954297492051noreply@blogger.com